~HoW To DeaL WiTh a BrEaK Up?~

How to deal with a break up? Ending a relationship is the hardest thing to do. You are looking for answers but you see none and you keep crying and getting depressed. You keep asking yourself how to deal with a break up and start to feel alone and dumped. Breaking up or getting dumped is the most painful thing you could experience in a relationship. A mutual attraction that bloomed into a joyful and lovely relationship is hard to end when one or both became uncomfortable due to a lot of reasons. It hurts and it’s hard to accept that the person you love is no longer with you now and you need to learn how to deal with a break up.

At this stage when the break up is new you have to learn how to deal with a break up. Cry if you have to, it’s alright. Allow yourself to grieve; it’s the first step of healing. For men, it’s okay to cry, you are a human being who is deeply hurt. Cry if you need too, but of course you have to be discreet and don’t just cry anywhere because people might think you are getting crazy. You are hurt but you still have the responsibility to keep your sanity and keep your self in tact.

Break ups doesn’t always mean its permanent, sometimes it does mean you and your partner need space to think things over. Getting back together after a break up needs time. Use the time and space you both have to think things over. You and your partner can think clearly and may realize the importance of getting back together.

While you have your space to find out how to deal with a break up, there are things you can do to feel better. One thing is talk to people close to you or share your feeling with someone. You will feel better if you talk about your feeling to people close to you and cry on the shoulder of a friend or a family member.

Discovering how to deal with a break up includes loving yourself more. Do not blame yourself if the relationship needs to end. It’s not your fault, relationships are complicated and most people go through rough times when it comes to relationships. If you start to blame yourself, you will get depressed and even lonelier. Think of the good qualities you have and be in the company of your friends who will always remind you of your good qualities. To know how to deal with a break up is to realize that you need to love yourself more. You need this to get through the loneliness of break ups. Take care of yourself and don’t appear too depressed and sad. To deal with a break up with positive attitude will attract positive things and you will feel better if you will only think of positive things.

While you figure out how to deal with a break up, this is also the time to enjoy and do things you want to do. If you enjoy going to the gym with your friends then do it. If you love to teach children or be involved in community work, now you have all the time to do it. You may discover new things or rediscover yourself. Give yourself time to heal and think things over. This is good for you and your partner and when you finally see each other again you may see things differently and with new perspective.

~wHaT DoEs LOVE MeAnT To YoU?~

cIntA Itu MenYakiTkaN! Percaya atau tidak, anda memerlukan seminit untuk tertarik kepada seseorang, sejam untuk menyukai seseorang, sehari untuk mencintai seseorang tetapi mengambil masa seumur hidup untuk melupakan seseorang yang anda cintai. Mungkin Tuhan sengaja menemukan kita dengan seseorang yang tidak sepadan sebelum kita ditemukan dengan orang yang sehati sejiwa. Justeru, apabila kita bertemu dengan orang yang tepat, kita akan mengetahui betapa berharganya anugerah itu. Cinta adalah ketika anda dibuai perasaan, kesabaran dan romantis dalam suatu hubungan serta mengetahui bahawa anda amat mengambil berat mengenai si dia. Hal yang menyedihkan dalam hidup adalah ketika bertemu seseorang yang sangat bererti bagi kita, namun akhirnya kita terpaksa membiarkan dia pergi. Ketika pintu kebahagiaan tertutup, yang lain terbuka. Tetapi kadangkala kita menatap terlalu lama pada pintu yang tertutup itu sehingga kita tidak melihat pintu lain yang terbuka untuk kita. Teman yang terbaik adalah individu yang sentiasa berada di sisi, berasa seronok ketika bersama dan dia tidak pernah mengatakan apa- apa selain tetap menyokong anda dari belakang. Memberikan seseorang semua cinta tidak pernah menjamin bahawa mereka akan mencintai anda. Jangan mengharapkan cinta sebagai balasan, tunggulah sampai cinta itu berputik di dalam hatinya. Tetapi jika tidak, pastikan dia tumbuh dalam hatimu. Ada hal yang sangat ingin anda dengar tetapi tidak akan pernah anda dengar daripada seseorang yang anda sukai. Tetapi jangan sampai anda menjadi tuli walaupun tidak mendengar luahan hatinya. Jangan pernah mengucapkan selamat tinggal jika anda masih ingin mencuba. Jangan menyerah selama anda berasa masih ada harapan. Jangan pernah berkata anda tidak mencintainya lagi walhal tidak sanggup membiarkan dia pergi. Cinta datang kepada mereka yang masih mempunyai harapan walaupun sering dikecewakan. Cinta hadir kepada mereka yang masih mempercayai, walaupun kerap dikhianati. Cinta juga menghampiri mereka yang masih ingin mencintai, walaupun berulang kali disakiti dan kepada mereka yang mempunyai keberanian serta keyakinan untuk membina kembali kepercayaan. Janganlah mudah berputus asa. Jangan melihat daripada wajah, itu boleh menipu. Jangan melihat kekayaan, itu boleh luput. Berharaplah kepada seseorang yang dapat membuatmu tersenyum kerana sebuah senyuman dapat membuat hari yang gelap menjadi cerah. Berharaplah anda bertemu seseorang yang dapat membuat anda tersenyum. Ada saat dalam kehidupan apabila anda sangat merindukan seseorang, ingin menemui dan memeluknya. Berharaplah anda dapat mimpikan si dia, pergilah ke mana saja anda ingin kunjungi, jadilah sesuai dengan keinginan anda kerana anda hanya hidup sekali dan satu kesempatan untuk melakukan apa diinginkan. Semoga anda memperoleh cukup kebahagiaan, cukup dugaan untuk membuat anda kuat, cukup penderitaan untuk membuat anda menjadi manusia yang tabah dan cukup harapan untuk membuat kamu berbahagia. Selalu letakkan diri pada posisi orang lain. Jika anda berasa itu menyakitkan, mungkin ia akan menyakitkan orang lain. Orang yang bahagia tidak perlu memiliki yang terbaik dalam segala hal. Mereka melakukan yang terbaik dalam segala hal. Kebahagiaan bukan bagi mereka yang menangis, mereka yang terluka, mereka yang mencari, mereka yang mencuba. Cinta bermula dengan senyuman, tumbuh dengan kemesraan dan berakhir dengan air mata. Masa depan yang cerah berdasarkan pada masa lalu yang dilupakan, Anda tidak dapat melangkah dengan baik dalam kehidupan hingga anda melupakan kegagalan dan rasa sakit hati. Ketika lahir, anda menangis dan semua orang di sekeliling tersenyum. Hiduplah dengan hidupmu, justeru ketika anda meninggal dunia, anda satu-satunya yang tersenyum dan semua orang di sekeliling menangis..

~Apa mok polah mun time dah BoRiNgZeSs~

hehehe all day and all nite long...have u ever feel so bored... bulak la juak sik perah rasa boring...
how can we as individual manage to overcome boredness in life... i may have some few tips or action to help you...

spend one day with your frens...or families or ur loved ones... cari la mana2 port view yg best. i recommended beaches and hotels... why hotel? hahaha ko cari hotel where no pass for visitors... masuk free of charge la maksud ya... when you are in the hotel boh pg kaunter... trus pegi lift... hahaha... dah masuk lift ambi la gmbr kitakorg sekawan. mcm kat dibah tok...

place: Hotel Marriot, Miri

Rate: 5 Star Hotel n resorts
Info: the only hotel that has a mirror inside the lift...ekekekeke...

time kameorg ambi gmbr tok. mala jak nekan num no tingkat lift dr first til last. ekekeke keja gila... nasib sekda org time ya. ekekeke. sukati jak nait turun nait turun ekekeke... puas main lift keluar jak kameorg... mok ambi view dekat swimmimg pool. hehehe...

suka ku nangga view tok... well my advise is...where ever you are... makesure u do bring your camera ok... sik kesah la phone cam ka, video cam ka, 3G cam ka... take any shots of your pic...
sayang bha tmpt ko mok pergi tp sik mbak cam... sekda kenangan ko ngan tmpt ya. apatah lg with ur frens...huhuhu...sik semestinya ko pg beaches or hotels time2 boring. take time to spend on window shopping. hahaha girls loved it... mun mok shopping bajet meti ada. bg org nok couple ya... make sure ur boyfrens do have money. ekekeke....yala ney la tauk ada brg nok kita minat. mun sik mbak duit diri pun beli sendiri. hahaha...


mun sik pg window shopping. pg la makan kat luar... perut kenyang n senang hati. hihihihi....pa susah hoh. sedia jak bajet RM50 jak...yup only RM50. yala ko pg isi minyak cukup la RM1o jak... kat ya ko order la makanan 2 3 menu ka... 1 menu apa jak la RM3/- ekeke... ko maseh tinggal brp ringgir gik? anggarkan la tinggal RM30. sukati ko la pa ko mok polah ngan rm30 ya... mian bowling cthnya...hihihi... best hoh mu perut dah kenyang gilak... eh dah ptg dah... balit umah lok resttt.... huhuhu.. tido kejap ka... mlm mok kuar gik eh... hihihi... aouk la nama mok hilangkn rasa boring kan...
kat umah nak... pastikan semua org kat umah ya dah mandi... kat ya turn ko gik. make sure air bilik mandi ya tangki nya penuh. hihihi wanna know why? spend ur time mandi sepuas2 nya... record aku paling lama mandi 1 jam 28 minit cmya( time dok kolej dolok)... roomate aku siap letak jam kira gik ya... hahaha... ok ok mlm pun mjelang...

aku mun time mlm2... biasa ya kuar mkn ngan kwn. sik la salu ada la time nya juak. mkn kat kedei mamak ka...hihihi mala jak mkn hoh...tp ok wat... ramai2 kat kedei mkn nangga man u main...but most at the time i owest hangout with my frens at the club. sekali sekala jak... bkn salu pun.... yup... i love to dance... and sing. pg karaoke la jwb nyer... hihihihi....
just wanna have fun jak... just sip a little bit and enjoy the nite...
being myself as a princess(ladies nite)... muslim ppl are not encourage ok... huhuhu... sorry la...

enjoy the nite...
live the life...while nite still young
have a Life...while the journey still long
life is too short... take the chances while we still alive
~muaxsss~

~still looking for the meaning of LIFE~

helooo....hehehe.... i'm suppose to study bha this week. yala...next wek final start ma. huhuhu... but still ambi kesempatan share with you journal of Mieya Diaries... life begin at 20 (for me) hehehe
not 30 ok... hahaha... yes i'm having a great life. that's for sure... til today mcm sik pcaya jak time has passing by... lots of experience i have all the way of my life... its all about family, friendships, love, happiness, sadness ect... hehehe... some part of my life can be so great n vice versa.... but more happiness than sadness occurs since 2006... i love travelling... i love o hangouts with my frens... really miss my family... wish could be with 'someone'... huhuhu... owh what a LIFE!


hahaha funny pic on new years eve...hehehe i loved it because of my nephew's face impression. notty u know... he looks adorable. hehehe... most handsome among others. ekekeke jeles org kelak. wawawa~ pa reti ya...

til now i still can't believe my belaoved kazen is oledy married. huhuhu... wanna know why? she still young... still lots of journey to go. huhuhu... tp jodoh ma... ekekeke. i'm happy with her at the same time. finally she gets her life to be completed... next! having a baby. hahaha... aku bila gik mok kawen hoh... ekekeke still have a long journey... jeles ku nangga bilik nya tok... well umah baru ma... renovate pun sik alang2. ekekeke...

hehehe... tinggal la kamekorg nok single tok.. ekekeke...

~feel so boring dowh~

wah... next week is final exam. why i'm not ready? huhuhu today feeling so bored. freaking crazy duno wat to do... mik sketch ilham sekda. huhuhu... mok blaja mood sik sampei... last2 ambi gmbr edit edit edit hahaha.... ntah pa benda ku polah...otak nang kosong li juak eh...wat am i suppose to do? wat wat wat?????

last2 tok la jadi nya... tido...hahaha

~my activities on SuNdAy~12 April 2009

elooo... hehehe nice to meet u again. hahaha wat stories to come??? SUNDAY... holy sunday...and today is Easter Day. to my christian frens wishing u all Happy Easter Day... this morning i went to church at St. Francis Church in Sitiawan, Perak. To be honest, its been 2 months i didn't went to churh... aiya... nang berat la dosa ku mbak. huhuhu... walaupun today i had the chance to go to the church it doesn't mean that dosa ku ya dah diampunkan. Prayers and commitment in fellowship is good enough.why? i'm Anglican not Roman Catholic but yet same religion in Christianity. mas started at 8.30am. bt me n my housemate arrived at 9.20am( we didn't know the schedule has change for this week)...but nvrmind...then finish smwhere at 10.30am.

after the mass...huhuhu confirm la perut lapar.. ekekek tmpt biasa is chinese food. of coz la looking for favourite menu>>>fried pork meat, roasted pecking duck and chicken stimmed...ahakz!!! sedapppp oooooo..... hen haochi...ekekekekeke....


name of the menu: chicken stimmed and fried pork meat

price: RM5.00/-(including rice la ngek...)

hen haochi: *****


name of the menu: roasted pecking duck

price: RM5.00/-(including rice la ngek...)

hen haochi: ****

hehehe wat's next hah... owh ya iwent shopping after tat. hehehe well sekali dlm sebulan. buy new things la... especially brg dapur> huhuhu mos important thing.. ekekeke... tp time shopping i really loved tis shirts. kiuuuuttttt.... walaupun mahal sanggup ku beli. hahahhaha i'm shopaholic tat is why i am... ekekeke...
~loved butterfly so much~

product: baby T-shirt ahakz!~

brand: Giordano >loved it

price: RM34.50 (fiuuuhhh...)

~abstract of butterfly...ahakz! loved it~

product: baby T-shirt ahakz!~

brand: Giordano >loved it so much

price: RM34.50 (fiuuuhhh...)

oLd sKuL>back to the memories...2001-2004

haa... ku mok cita perjalanan ku as MiEyA DiArIeS. sine ku skolah time sek men dolok. hahaha... maklum la. aku org nomad. salu pindah randah... but i have lots of memories. huhuhu...let us begin our stories...


huhu... 1st sekolah menengah ku is SMK Batu Kawa, Kuching... (2001-2002) Dari FORM 1 SAMPEI FORM 3 JAK...sorry la sekda gmbr sek ya mok di view citok... malas dah ku mok cari hahaha... hermm pa yg best sekolah tok. time tok la aku suka polah benda baru. hihihi... bad habit pun started from tis skul oso. huhuhu... ku pernah mrokok huhuhu tp sik lama... ekekeke... pandei buli org especially junior(time ya ku form 3) huhuhu.. kat sekolah tok la ku pandei b'couple/ date. hahaha lucu eh... my 1st puppy love is Steven Davison(burn)> gara2 nya ku berubah jd bait. ekekeke... he is very sweet, a myterious person (benaaa...), diam2 ubi berisi bha ya, loves to sing and played guitar for the skul. huhuhu... sapa sangka the most fav guy ya ada crush ngan aku yg sebel, nerd and gaok tok. hehehe... tp sik lama pas ya my dad dpt promoted then tpaksa la pindah g miri. huhuhu... tputus di tgh jln eh. huhuhu tp now he is my best fren and dah famous amous with his band diripun named Soulcatchez. thanks Burn... i never forget u. huhuhu... my other frens are>>> vanesa, jenny, viviana, diana, michelle, jadyn, suliza, walter, and bla bla bla...(byk tp lupa dah nama hehe... sory)


>>>aaaa... tis is my fav skul. SMK ST. COLUMBA MIRI... i'm in the year of 2003-2004. form 4 til form 5...hihihi loved tis skul so much. pengetua time zaman aku tok is Mr. Wong King Kui. huhuhu... sporting... friendly... really concern bout his student. strict ada juak tmpt nya. huhuhu... mun nya marah org in private(kat ofis nya). nya sik kan ngerepak sesukati nya.hihihi... suka nya jenguk kelas aku(4E5- 2003 and 5L5- 2004). yala kelas kameorg tok salu pengawas aim n cop> kelas paling byk polah "jenayah" and mbak "bukti2 jenayah" hahaha... tapi kelas kameorg juak majoriti byk pengawas. huahuahua... denki dak nya ya... tp walaupun byk jenayah... kameorg tok juak nok byk polah keja 'amal' n anugerah "the best"... hihihi... jgn jelez bha... kat ya kelas kamekorg juak la byk "the best actor" (ada2 jak drama n sketsa mok dipolah- janji dpt escape kelas) hahaha... owh ya sapa couple ngan aku time tok hahaha... adala ya. hehehe... sik eh ku mok mention. but frens nang byk la....my frens> yea2, titi, sheldon, bradly, kurey, jen, misa, azie, carlos, wan, adeq, abell, nelly, sofea, nurul, zeyra and many more la... huhuu miss u guys... muaxssss!!!




hahaha yes i've been here... SMK BARU MIRI...LOWER 6-UPPER SIX...skolah nok paling student rasa malang sekali study citok time zaman principal ompuan nok garang ya. Miss Ang Siew Jin. adeiiii... maseh juak ku ingat nama pgetua ya. hahaha... terus terang nang ku myampah nar ngan nya. tis is my opinion la. we can accept her when she strict but we can't accept her when she is being childish... time nya ngerepak ya bha... huhuhu... dah la byk juak persatuan di banned nya adei... geram aku. huhuhu... sorry arr miss ( dah kawen ka belum nya nek tok) lantak la... hahaha... well as malaysian people aku ada hak utk myuarakan pandangan, kritikan, idea, ilmu and wat so eva... hak utk brsuara bha. janji sik btentangan ngan norma2 masyakat. ekekeke aiseh kuar p.moral...hahaha... tp kan byk juak la sijil ku dpt kat sekolah tok... hihihi. sik pyh la mention... hihihi... sekda benda mok dibangga gilak.. maklum la pgetua sik brp sporting gilak apatah lg open- minded. huhu jaik eh ku ngutuk nya. mcm la ku bait gilak. ada sbnrnya english drama club ya polah ku bangga.. (ney nda plakon utama adalah AKU! hihihi...) dpt no 1 hoh antara semua kelas dipertandingkan... bygkan ada 10 kelas form lawan english drama... kelas aku dpt 'title' the best n 1st place. hihihi... ada gikk kat sekolah tok la byk student kenal aku bcouple ngan puppy love ku tok... sine2 ku pg mesti ngan nya... sampai cikgu pun tauk hal ku time ya. wawawawa... kantoi! ya cita lama la... huhuhu... my frens> jen, misa, bradly, loraine, victor, annie, sue, martina, rima, angela, freda, syaz, chong, abell, gerald, carlos, moses, long, grace, rachel, simon(ehem2)and bla bla bla...
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ღmy sketchesღ[chapter 2]

olaaa my frensss... hehehe boring ku. sekda pa mok dipolah. pandei boring juak aku. tp biasa ya mun time aku boring ada sigi keja ku salu polah la time ku boring. ekekeke... pa kedak sama jak ayat ku polah tok. sukati jak.ekekeke. i want to share with one of 'talent'. chewah cam ngeso jak. hahaha sekda la. aku just mok share jak bha. i'm use to sketch sumting tat accross my mind. hehehe yes.. i loved to draw but hate colouring. wawawa... duno y.. i'm a bit kontra with my bro. my bro nang pandei la melukis and of course pandei mgaler.ekekekeke... gara2 my my aku pun kena juak effect but not so fully talented like him... tat's a bit about me.

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hehehe...gmbr sebelah ya nama nya burung. ape? burung... ape? burungg... ape??? ehhh udah bha. burung pipit. ekekeke.
aku lukis tok time ku balit dr kampus. ku jumpa burung tok time aku makan kat Uptown(tmpt ku salau makan tghari kat kampus)... ntah pa benda ku pk sampei jak umah trus ku rasa mok mlukis. huhuhu tgn kayo2 cari pensel. apa gik start la keja ku ya. hehehehe.....

haha kat sblh kiri tok KLCC tower sik mjadi.huahuahua susah owh mok lukis.. ada 8 kali ku lukis still tok juak jadi nya huhuhu... geram ku.. tcabar skill aku.ekekeke

[ApRiL] has come...

arghhhh.... jadual final exam dah kuar. tahniah la...huhuhu... ntah pa benda nok ku blaja. adei. i'm worried about my carrymark. huhuu.. didnt make any achievement towards my mission. aiya... tp yg bestnye final tok i'm only having 5 papers. hehehe... and the gap of study jauh tu... my 1st paper will be on 22nd april and my last paper will be on 7 mei. huhuhu... 13 mei i'm home (kch). owh how i miss my mum, my nephews and nieces especially the twins. hehehe... kopem dah besar da duak ya. OMG! not forgetting to my frens of coz la. aiya... how can i 4get u all my dearest frens... ada la org ya ku minta belanja mam seafooooood..ekekeke ilek arr... warghhh sik sabar mok balit tok.
abis kan dolok exam ya.. huhuu.. harap2 kali tok mun boleh mok dpt anugerah dekan.huhuhu... amennnn...

owh ya... hehehe ku dah book tiket dah balit
ekekekek
13 mei my frens...
sapa antara kitakorg mok pick me up
huhuhuhu
berebut la korg
hahahaha